tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8566083269278276256.post3796256184029863315..comments2023-05-05T10:30:04.532+01:00Comments on Dilemmas of an Algerian Girl in London: There is more to Safety in Numbers!Dz-Chickhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01236992136654777795noreply@blogger.comBlogger27125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8566083269278276256.post-4759605365724476082013-02-28T17:29:27.631+00:002013-02-28T17:29:27.631+00:00Thanks M! What’s wrong with going Dutch! God Bless...Thanks <b>M</b>! What’s wrong with going Dutch! God Bless the Dutch!<br /><br />These freeloaders do my head in.<br /><br /><b>QatKhal</b> Sad? I didn’t think so, maybe just morose ;)<br /><br />“The side effect of the security feeling within the tribe is the bad feeling of being oppressed. But the side effect of loneliness is depression... “Exactly, doomed either way!<br /><br />May I suggest Dz-Chickhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01236992136654777795noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8566083269278276256.post-73145512735602794382013-02-27T15:46:48.226+00:002013-02-27T15:46:48.226+00:00I agree with you that this behavior is not unique ...I agree with you that this behavior is not unique to our culture, but i wanted to single us(algerians) out. I may have some issues i need to work on, I maybe need to go see a shrink to see it there is hope to get rid of this social block. I think it's too late since I am too old to change...:-)<br /><br />El Badji Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8566083269278276256.post-88189424647594744092013-02-24T19:24:33.399+00:002013-02-24T19:24:33.399+00:00Honestly El Badji, it is a two ways street so thei...Honestly El Badji, it is a two ways street so their questions dont bother me, it is their filter for people who can be in their circle of trust if you like .. so if my answers to : how much I make and what jobs my parents have dont meet their expectations then I am not their cup of tea and if at least their questions dont match my expectations either then they are not my cup of tea .. I wouldn&#Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8566083269278276256.post-14609790948421203922013-02-24T03:00:35.167+00:002013-02-24T03:00:35.167+00:00DZC, thank you for the tips.
My problem is I don...DZC, thank you for the tips.<br /> <br />My problem is I don't appreciate the way people are valued in Algeria. <br />A human being should be valued no matter who they are, whatever social class they belong to and whatever education level they achieved. Algerians have this filter or barometer they measure you with, a list of questions they use to place you in a certain category. What does Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8566083269278276256.post-83051843157475157882013-02-23T22:42:08.096+00:002013-02-23T22:42:08.096+00:00we never forget DZC
Enjoy: http://www.zikdalgerie...we never forget DZC<br /><br />Enjoy: http://www.zikdalgerie.com/arres-best-of-1901-musique.fr<br /><br />The first one I like<br /><br />Not recommended with wine<br /><br />ATOAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8566083269278276256.post-21569176246076512552013-02-22T20:07:15.931+00:002013-02-22T20:07:15.931+00:00Dzchick! what a sad post! Voyons!
The side effect...Dzchick! what a sad post! Voyons! <br />The side effect of the security feeling within the tribe is the bad feeling of being oppressed. <br />But the side effet of loneliness is depression... <br /><br />Okay I know now that a protective cup is necessary fos asking you in which university you have been :DAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8566083269278276256.post-32850196394801111102013-02-22T11:51:59.714+00:002013-02-22T11:51:59.714+00:00Look forward for your next post!!!!!
ciao
MLook forward for your next post!!!!!<br />ciao<br />MAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8566083269278276256.post-38001061622298092592013-02-22T11:44:29.250+00:002013-02-22T11:44:29.250+00:00You welcome Dz chick! (whoever I'm)?
Well I...You welcome Dz chick! (whoever I'm)?<br />Well I'm just one of your fellow citezen who loves reading your post!<br />For the home crowd (men) I don't like the ones they expect you to pay everything for them (coffee, drink, lunch, dinner, bus fair....ext)<br />Have a good weekend Dz bella<br />M<br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8566083269278276256.post-940775270551158292013-02-21T19:59:46.219+00:002013-02-21T19:59:46.219+00:00Wink obviously I knew but couldn't help but an...<b>Wink</b> obviously I knew but couldn't help but answer... Geeky of me! Dz-Chickhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01236992136654777795noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8566083269278276256.post-43837832179745452912013-02-21T18:08:26.371+00:002013-02-21T18:08:26.371+00:00Dear Dz-Chick: No true questions, here. Was just j...Dear Dz-Chick: No true questions, here. Was just joking. Hence my moniker - wink.. :DWinknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8566083269278276256.post-64824511352000416392013-02-21T13:54:54.652+00:002013-02-21T13:54:54.652+00:00University of life is right. I am learning. There’...University of life is right. I am learning. There’s no end date is there. Well until I die that is.<br /><br /><b>Wink</b> all answers to your questions will make you judge me, or have preconception of what I am or should be like. And often we ARE our own worst enemies yes. Thanks for the reminder.<br /><br /><b>El Badji</b> that does sound a bit harsh but not uncommon, I guess you must have you Dz-Chickhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01236992136654777795noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8566083269278276256.post-68380844782728201782013-02-17T03:23:14.713+00:002013-02-17T03:23:14.713+00:00Well said DZC.
This may sound too harsh and extr...Well said DZC. <br /><br />This may sound too harsh and extreme, but I have (sadly) made a decision to no longer socialize with my homies. I can no longer relate to my own people. It's a chore to try to get along with. It doesn’t bother me for not knowing anybody from “back home” in the city I live in. I get ticked and irritated whenever I have an encounter with wlad labled, no matter what Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8566083269278276256.post-59128405427275565602013-02-14T08:35:14.843+00:002013-02-14T08:35:14.843+00:00Exactly ! .... in other words : i 3ayou la3rab !.....Exactly ! .... in other words : i 3ayou la3rab !.....Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8566083269278276256.post-89165379429561052652013-02-14T02:29:10.434+00:002013-02-14T02:29:10.434+00:00So what does your father do?
Does your mother work...So what does your father do?<br />Does your mother work?<br />How many siblings do you have?<br /><br />Remember: Often we are our own worst enemy.Winknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8566083269278276256.post-78469816072138966822013-02-13T22:46:10.649+00:002013-02-13T22:46:10.649+00:00Welcome to the university of life!Welcome to the university of life!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8566083269278276256.post-12469964241458968742013-02-13T17:48:43.344+00:002013-02-13T17:48:43.344+00:00Thank you M - whoever you are :)Thank you M - whoever you are :)Dz-Chickhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01236992136654777795noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8566083269278276256.post-77171445844249676862013-02-13T17:48:13.398+00:002013-02-13T17:48:13.398+00:00Anonymous 1 How is it Darwinian? Please explain
...<b>Anonymous 1</b> How is it Darwinian? Please explain<br /><br /> <br /><br /><b>Anonymous 2</b> If he’s hitting on my, I would rather he didn’t ask for my CV. But how true is that, after the 100th time you can chill and bring out the crazy in you.<br /><br />And yes I do realise, what we mostly have in common is having come here to study, so it’s kind of a natural question to ask. When you’re Dz-Chickhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01236992136654777795noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8566083269278276256.post-46461183973719735952013-02-13T14:27:43.066+00:002013-02-13T14:27:43.066+00:00Great piece of art as always welldone you dz chick...Great piece of art as always welldone you dz chick.<br />M<br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8566083269278276256.post-14302018927621878952013-02-13T12:48:56.267+00:002013-02-13T12:48:56.267+00:00Je viens de realiser aussi, que j'ai quitte l&...Je viens de realiser aussi, que j'ai quitte l'universite il y a 20 ans. Il doit y avoir prescription. J'allais dire on a les amis que l'on merite, mais je n'y crois pas trop non plus. Avec l'age, j'ai compris qu'il fallait arreter de faire des compromis socialement. C'est pas parce que tu es algerienne que tu es mon amie.<br />Boussa.MTFhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02824128484686738923noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8566083269278276256.post-82008750684151181722013-02-13T12:43:28.469+00:002013-02-13T12:43:28.469+00:00DZC
On ne me pose jamais de questions sur mon parc...DZC<br />On ne me pose jamais de questions sur mon parcours universitaire...et pourtant j’ai un master en business. Je devrai changer de cercles d’amis.<br />MTFhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02824128484686738923noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8566083269278276256.post-81042897207424290142013-02-13T10:44:35.479+00:002013-02-13T10:44:35.479+00:00Dz Chick you are a loner, the only odd number smal...Dz Chick you are a loner, the only odd number smaller than 3 is 1 so you either prefer a tête á tête or just being on your own! Either way I can relate to that as quality is much more valuable than quantity!<br /> <br />People move as flocks of sheeps, there is not enough individuality in this society hence people need to hold on to something, be it culture, religion, social class etc...squash Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02711607185375943125noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8566083269278276256.post-68556760189837456722013-02-13T07:12:42.943+00:002013-02-13T07:12:42.943+00:00I can totally relate to what you are experiencing....I can totally relate to what you are experiencing. Judging others and trying to make them feel uncomfortable about themselves or their achievements is a quintessential Algerian characteristic. I know from experience that even if you have been to an Ivy League University, landed a job of your dreams, married the cutest guy, there will always be a question or a comment to hint that your life sucks.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8566083269278276256.post-71153065632352624982013-02-12T23:26:47.601+00:002013-02-12T23:26:47.601+00:00its all about finding the right balance I would sa...its all about finding the right balance I would say - agreed, its easier said than done!<br /><br />when it comes to the feelings of nostalgia, it (from my experience) actually reflects a feeling of lonelyness... and there are many reasons to feel that way these days, and being away from home/family is juste one of them. It then just makes sense to want to fill that gap by meeting alike people (Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8566083269278276256.post-51562723825510928072013-02-12T22:14:49.401+00:002013-02-12T22:14:49.401+00:00thank u for the wink "abu koulayta" &...thank u for the wink "abu koulayta" & " Aid Echadjara " looool u didn't forget ... I am pleased<br />and everything else ... no commentsAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17570410481998498469noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8566083269278276256.post-74957014070070106162013-02-12T20:11:25.704+00:002013-02-12T20:11:25.704+00:00Starting 'friendships' between algerians s...Starting 'friendships' between algerians sort of have to start in a formal manner, hence the obvious questn of what university/course u went to/did. Especially when talking to the opposite sex, otherwise a woman would think you're hitting on her and same goes for the man I suppose. Which is different when dealing with Europeans because even if they think you're hitting on them, Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com