You decide to move to
You have a whale of time; you are queen of your castle, at the top of your game, financial independence, glorious social life, amazing opportunities, travel and discovery…and then one day you hit 30…and the one thought you never thought or hoped would come hits you ….Marriage!
You start looking for a partner, a boyfriend of suitabe age...
It seems from my long analysis and 30 years of being Algerian, that Algerian men do not like challenges, they like the easy life, easy gain, the cultural norms and hypocrisy go hand in hand and has been indoctrinated in them since the appearance of their very first chest hair…we cannot change that, so the solution I have been advised, for us Algerian Ladies who want to be with a fellow Algerian man is to lower your standards, do not judge and accept whatever comes your way because you go over 30 and you’ve basically missed the boat and you’ll end up an old spinster, I resent this and refuse to lower my standards, I will be judgmental to my future husband or boyfriend’s manners and education and way of thinking and will not accept less than I deserve.
They say your body clock kicks in and your hormones change, you start to feel broody and nature takes it place, the urge for procreation is upon you, you find yourself seeking emotional support and a diffrent kind of stability, so you establish that you would like a man in your life, for a “serious” relationship…you establish your criteria, does he have to be Algerian, Muslim, Tall, dark or blonde (not ginger), intelligent, educated, rich, well mannered, sexy and has big hands (if you feel you fit the description, you can write to me)... You start searching, not actively but as it happens you’re a social butterfly and meet a lot of people, magnetic personality and charisma makes it easy for you to make contacts and network in different “classes” and groups…but you only meet men who are the complete opposite to your description!! Uneducated, not well spoken, not well mannered, not financially independent in fact will without a doubt be dependant on you, and they are attracted to you because they see you as the women with the drive who will make their life better, you’re the asset to have, you’re the mother to his children who in turn will succeed and grow up to be like their mother, you’re the trophy wife that all his friends will envy him for….that’s all well and good for him – he has hit the jackpot but what about me? Where is my ideal man, my trophy potential husband, and the great man who’d be the father to my children and who’d make my life easier and better!
To follow….so watch this space